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God
Looks on the Heart. Do You?
by David L. Antion
When God was choosing a king to replace Saul, He sent Samuel to the
house of Jesse to pick one of Jesse’s sons. Samuel wanted to choose
the first born son but God told him, "…look not on his countenance,
or on the height of his stature…for man looks on the outward appearance,
but the LORD looks on the heart" (1Sam. 16:7). David was a man
after God's own heart (1 Sam. 13:14). Jeremiah pleaded with the people
to circumcise the "foreskin of your heart" (Jer. 4:4).
God sometimes tests us to know fully what is in our hearts. While God
can read our mind and our heart, there are situations in which He Himself
wants to know just where we stand (2 Chron. 32:31). The word translated
"heart" is the Hebrew word "lebab (lay-bawb)" which
means the inner man, mind, will, understanding, resolution and determination.
There is a second Hebrew word ("leb") which has identically
the same meaning.
There are many influences of the heart (mind). Wine makes it glad and
food strengthens it (Psa. 10415). We know that when a person's blood
sugar is low, food revives energy and the mind works better. Students
who stay up all night "cramming" for exams often eat constantly
during that time.
We are to trust God with all our heart and not to lean solely to our
own understanding (Prov. 3:5; 4:4). Here we are told that the only One
where we can put our entire trust is GOD. We should never lean soley
to our own understanding. Our perceptions are often fallible as are
our memories. It would be the height of folly to lean soley to our own
understanding without getting feedback from others and council from
others.
The Bible describes the heart in many ways. It talks of a "deceived
heart", a "foolish heart", "anguish of heart",
"blindness of heart" (Isa. 44:20; Rom. 1:21; 2 Cor.2:4; Eph.
4:18). The mind can be blind to new knowledge and information. Our minds
can be deceived and even become foolish regardless of our IQ.
There is even a mention of an "evil heart of unbelief" (Heb.
3:12). A sin, like a crime, is punished based on the "mens rae"
or criminal mind. In the books of the Law, mention is made of a sin
that was done in ignorance or by accident as opposed to one that is
done "presumptuously" or by will. Suppose I run over your
foot with my car I didn't mean to do it. I might have to pay for your
medical bills and for your time off work and losses as well as for pain
and suffering. This is only right because I DID hurt
you even though I did not mean to do so. But if I deliberately ran over
your foot in an attempt to hurt your or cripple you -- my heart was
that of a criminal. It would therefore be a criminal offence not just
an injury. So, in addition to having to pay for your injuries and losses,
I would also be tried for criminal wrong doing.
The state of mind -- what's in the heart -- makes all the difference
as to what kind of person I am. One would be a good person who committed
an accidental wrong. The other would be a be a person of evil intent
who did a deliberate wrong!
We are told that we are to have a pure heart (Matt. 5:8; 1Tim. 1:5).
A pure heart is one in which there is no criminal or sinful intent.
A person, by pulls of the flesh or other temptations, may yield to them
in a sinful way. This is different from a person who plans and determines
evil such as criminals do.
A heart can be open or closed. Paul said his heart was wide open to
the Corinthians (2Cor. 6:11). Remember, the Bible is really talking
about the mind. To open one’s heart is to open one’s mind regarding
another and to be able to receive new and accurate information. But
some people close their "heart" even to those they used to
love. One offence and there is no more chance with them -- you're simply
out of their lives. I have seen people abandon all contact with their
son or daughter because that person did something "wrong"
in their sight. Where is the open heart? Their heart (mind) is hardened
in that it will not take in new information and like a computer is supposed
to do -- update itself.
We now explore what you do with your heart and just how important the
heart is to God and in our human relationships. Remember, the word translated
"heart" is the Hebrew word "lebab (lay-bawb)" which
means the inner man, mind, will, understanding, resolution and determination.
There is a second Hebrew word ("leb") which has the same identical
meaning. The Greek word is "kardia" which means heart but
is a metaphor for mind, inner man, etc.
Here are things you can do with your heart. You can purpose
with your heart as when you decide how much or whether to make a donation
(2 Cor. 9:7). You can have care in your heart for others (2 Cor.8:16).
And you can even hold people in your heart
(Phil. 1:7). If you have love in yourself for others, you would hold
them in your heart. You probably have many memories of people near and
dear to you that you "hold in your heart." I often think of
my wonderful grandparents who have been dead for many years. I still
hold them in my heart. I hold in my heart the memories of so many Brethren
whom I have served over the years as pastor of churches. I look forward
to seeing many again when we visit the Tulsa area.
You can make plans in your heart (Prov. 16:1).
But what you think in your heart reveals what
kind of person you really are (Prov. 23:7). You can hold a haughty pride
in your heart which seeks to lift itself up above others -- a thing
which God hates (Prov. 16:5). You can be mistaken or err in your heart
as did the Israelites when, because they had no faith, sought to put
God to the proof (Heb. 3:10).
Because the heart is deceitful even to its
owners (Jer. 17:9), God has to search the heart and test the reins (which
literally means kidneys -- another metaphor for mind -- Jer. 7:10).
There is no doubt that our minds are fallible and even deceive us. That
is why we are admonished to trust God with all our heart and not to
lean soley to our own understanding. Have you ever had your mind play
tricks on you? It happens to people all the time. We can even halluncinate
and hear and see things that are not really there. The heart (mind)
is deceitful even to us! Nevertheless, in making decisions we must use
our minds and whatever understanding we have at that moment. We should
search God's Word and get wise (not just any) council so we can make
informed and wise decisions.
Evil things can come our of the heart of man
(Mark 7:21). Jesus enumerated them -- evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications,
murders, thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lasciviousness, an
evil eye, blasphemy, pride, and foolishness (v. 22).
Did you know that you can deceive your own heart (James 1:26)? Think
of it. To deceive your own mind, a part of you must know the truth and
deliberately keep the truth back from the other part of your mind. You
can also train your heart in evil (2Peter 2:14 NAS).
What we need is a good heart that does not condemn us. In other words
we need a clear conscience (1John 3:20-21). Why? Because it is the heart
which is converted and which believes! "…if you confess with your
mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from
the dead, you will be saved, for with the heart a person believes, resulting
in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation"(Rom.10:9-10
NAS). When God converts us and makes us new, where does He write His
laws? In our heart (Heb. 10:10)! Writing to the Corinthians, Paul told
them that they themselves were his letter of commendation written in
their hearts by the Spirit of God (2 Cor. 3:3).
But there are people who have no interest in the heart of another. Writing
to the Corithians, in chapter 5 of the second letter, Paul explained
that he was not again commending himself to them. What he was doing
was giving them reasons to be proud of him so that they might be able
to answer "those who pride themselves on a man's position and not
on his heart (2Cor.5:12). There are people who simply do as Samuel began
to do -- i.e. look solely on the external appearance. They make all
their judgments based on appearance alone. Some people make their judgments
on the basis of titles. Some on the basis of a position or claim of
authority. And others who make decisions on outward appearances.
Some people look on appearances. They say, "This person looks good,
like a leader, I believe him or her." But others who look on appearances
make another kind of mistake. They say, "That person looks good,
so they could not be a leader or know truth." What they want is
someone who looks "humble" and not so good. In both cases
people judge from outward appearance and not on a person's heart. Why?
Because it takes more effort and time to know a person's heart than
it does to make a quick decision on ouitward appearance. We must look
beyond the surface to deeper things. In the case of evaluating messages
-- written or spoken -- we must compare them to the Word of God and
our good common sense.
Good relationships, as well as marriages, depend on our ability to look
on the heart of a person who may offend us. A personal example I have
been late in sending a birthday card to my father on several occasions
over my adult life. I either forgot it or just was too busy to get to
it in time. I have called him and said, "Dad, I'm sorry you won't
get your card or gift in time for your birthday." His reply has
always been, "That's OK. Don't worry about it. I know you love
me and that's what counts." In that statement he has looked on
my heart and not merely on my actions.
Some years back I was visiting at my parents house. My mother's brother
-- "Uncle Eddie"-- came over as he ususlly did to visit with
us. We were sitting on the back porch talking and I asked him, "How
is Aunt Louise?" I had completely forgotten that Aunt Louise --
his first wife -- had died some years back. My mother's face looked
horrified as did my dad's. But Uncle Eddie said, "You forgot. You
just forgot that she died about 6 years ago." He said it in the
kindest of tones and with the warmest of expressions to me. What he
was really saying to me was "I know your heart. You would never
mean to say something to hurt me."
Do you know your spouse's heart? Do you know that your loved one would
never do something deliberately and with malice just to hurt you? To
know their heart -- that it is pure toward you is one of the most important
things in maintaining good relationships. Or do you look only on the
surface and react strongly to mistakes like forgetting a birthday card,
saying the wrong words??
In our relationship to God we need to remember the words of Psalm 19:14
"Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my
heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer."
Taken from Guardian Ministries
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