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Does Every Man Want And Need From A Woman?
is it that every man wants and needs from a woman? Today, the great
majority of opinion is that marital problems are sexually motivated.
But, I have found that usually sexual compatibility is not the real
problem in marriage. Sex is simply the battleground. The real problem
goes much deeper. Do not misunderstand me. Sexual relationships in
marriage should be highly valued. EVERY MAN NEEDS FOR HIS
WIFE TO BE HIS LOVER, REALLY HIS LOVER. The more passionate
she is, the better.
ladies ought never to be prudish and cold with your husbands. The
Word of God gives very plain instruction in this matter. The Apostle
Paul tells us, "Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled"
(Heb. 13:4). "Let the husband render unto the wife her due benevolence:
and likewise also the wife unto her husband. The wife hath not power
of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath
not power over his own body, but the wife" (I Cor. 7:3-4). He
admonished the aged women to teach the younger women "to love
their husbands" (Tit. 2:4). If you would be a good wife, learn
to please your husband well in making love to him.
men want and need much more in a wife than a good sexual companion.
EVERY MAN NEEDS AND WANTS HIS WIFE'S REVERENCE. A wife should
reverence her husband and be in submission to him in all things. The
Word of God requires a woman to do so; and it is impossible to build
a happy home until this reverence and submission is given by the wife
toward her husband. Ladies, speak well of your husbands. Praise them,
encourage them, and honor them with your speech. Don't ever belittle
him, either in private or in public. Don't even do it in jest. If
you will show reverence toward your husband, both in your speech and
in your submissive obedience to his desires, it is very likely that
you will receive the love and tenderness you desire from him. I have
never yet seen a woman who reverenced her husband and was in subjection
to him fail to have a happy home.
MAN ALSO NEEDS FOR HIS WIFE TO BE A FAITHFUL HOUSEWIFE. I
do not say that a woman should not work outside the home, or that
you should have no outside interests. But, the Word of God does teach
that the primary, principle sphere of a wife's responsibility is in
her home. Nothing pleases a man more than for his wife to keep a neat,
clean home, spend some time preparing a good meal, and put forth some
effort in preparing special treats for him. If you want your husband
to come home at night, give him a reason to do so. Spend your days
making your home, and he may spend more of his evenings with you in
EVERY MAN ALSO WANTS AND NEEDS FOR HIS WIFE TO BE CONTENT.
A loving husband will give or do most anything within his ability
to make his wife happy. But, ladies, learn to be content with what
he is able to give and do. Don't ever nag him about what you do not
have, or what you wish you had. And don't ever compare him with other
men. Learn to enjoy that which God has given you. Be industrious and
thrifty, and your husband will love you for it. If you will learn
to live within your means, so that your husband doesn’t have to work
just to pay the creditors, it will make life much happier and more
pleasant for both you and your husband. Do you want to build a happy
home? Perhaps if you will follow these simple guidelines, you can
do so. If you are a good wife, it is very likely that you will have
a good husband.